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Tuesday, October 14, 2008 17:14



My boyfriend lies to me all the time, sometimes 3 times a day,
and it is about small things that don't matter.
It is annoying and makes me feel he is taking me for a fool
and it feels like he would lie about the big things too if this is the case.
Furthermore, if I ever question him about something important he says that his memory has failed him, "he does not remember".
It is so annoying, how can I cure it, and how am I supposed to think about it???


A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008):
Get out now!!!
I made the mistake of marrying my liar boyfriend and guess what.
Now I have a liar husband who I do love... but can't handle the lies anymore.
After we were married, I even found out that he intends to act on seeing somebody at least once a year.
I had to find out everything by living life as the detective.


A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008):
Dump him!
I recently dumped a guy who lied and lied.
"Oh, sorry - I just forgot to text you. I do that sometimes".
And on and on.
Now he's texting constantly with some other girl.
I really love him, but I will not stand for that sort of behavior.
So I cut him loose, even though it hurt then, and still does now.
He was nice, apart from the lying, lol.
What's really difficult is that I work with this guy,
and have decided (because of fantastic pay), that I will not leave just because of him.
He's still nice to me, but knows now that I won't stand for lying or his inconsistencies.
It's painful seeing him text the other girl,
but I feel good knowing that I was able to stand my ground and not let him mess me around with lies.
Your guy sounds exactly like my guy, the quote you put from him is something my guy used quite a few times.
Please dump him.
And then take care of yourself - maybe revamp your look, have fun, do things that will cheer you up.
Show him that you won't let him spoil your fun or upset you.
The best revenge is living well.


A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007):
He WILL NOT change. Get out of this relationship fast.
Would you accept this behavior from a "friend"?
No, of course not.
Dump him; you will never be able to trust him.
I know, I married my lying boyfriend.
He betrayed me over & over again.
You already know the answer. Get real.


A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007):
I have the same trouble.
My husband constantly lies to me about little things and when I want to talk about it he just tells me he does not want to argue and says "I am sorry".
I hate it when he lies.
One time we argued I told he I am sick of he's lies and said I am leaving you.
The next day I came back home wanting to talk about it
and he told me he was out with a girl.
I couldnt believe it.
Now he lies about going to his moms house. I dont know what to do...


A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007):
You're not alone.
I have lived with one for 18years before I faced upto the fact.
They are nice and kind on the surface and you can find ways to excuse them.
Trouble is they are leading you this way.
Please get out before you wasted all your life...